3 P’s to relieve Parent Stress while Travelling with Kids, Toddlers and young Children

 

Here are the 3 P’s to prepare you before travelling and alleviate parent stress:

 

Plan:

Planning … Planning … Planning, there is no escape from this. If adventurous, unplanned holidays gave you a high in the past remember one thing – they have to be forgotten when you have children – else you will only create more parent stress. There are ways to reduce anxiety when travelling with tiny children, though it takes meticulous planning in advance and flexibility during the trip. Planning involves:

deciding where to go to,
how to go,
what to do and know about the place you are visiting and
how to be prepared for the travel.

 

For deciding where to go, ask your travel agent for family-friendly suggestions. See your physician about vaccinations beforehand. The most important step is to decide how to travel. Take all the pros and cons of different modes of travel before deciding the mode of travel. Depending on the mode of travel, plan for stuff like breaks, overnight stays, availability of airfield transit facilities etc so that you and your child are comfortable.

 

An important tip to relieve parent stress while travelling is to ensure that you have enough rest breaks. Do not jam-pack the trip with lots of activities; have days of resting so that your children do not feel very tired. Keeping your trip as easy as you can and it will reduce the number of problems.

 

Prepare:

Once you are through with planning a trip the next step is to prepare for the trip. This step involves actually mentally, physically and emotionally preparing you for the trip. Once you have decided on the place to travel and the mode of transport you will need to prepare for the following:

 

How do you prepare for the place you are visiting?
What sort of accommodation you want?
What to bear in mind and prepare depending on the mode of travel?
What do you need to carry with you?

 

Preparing for the place you are travelling requires you to know about the facilities that the place provides like supermarkets, availability of key food and hygiene brands required for your child, availability of medical care, what to refrain intake and drinking, where to refrain visiting etc. This research will help you to be superior prepared for the trip and you would know what to expect.

 

The most important preparation is for the mode of transport. If you are travelling by air or train remember to:

Purchase an extra ticket if you can afford, else request an aisle seat, which can give you more mobility and quicker access to your seat when boarding and de-boarding. Also, in case of air travel ask for bulkhead seats or seats near an exit to give your child a innocuous spot to play on the floor.
Schedule the flight during night so that your baby sleeps most of the time.
Allow more time for security checks, getting to the gates or your platform at the station, and unexpected events.
Bring nutritious snacks for your children and for yourself; you don’t want to be caught hungry with no food options in sight.

 

 

When travelling by car:

Use appropriate restraints, such as seatbelts or automobile seats.
Don’t stack items in a way that they start all over if you have to brake suddenly.
Use shade cloth to keep the sun from shining in your child’s grappling or wear sunscreen.
Be prepared for plenty of toilet and rest stops are taken to reduce motion sickness. This needs to be planned in the travel. Also check with your physician on the drugs you can give to your child to reduce motion sickness.

 

The last step in preparation is to decide what you should carry with you when you travel. Here the key tips are:

First aid box containing items such as baby paracetamol, thermometer, anti-itching lotion, oral rehydration preparation and band-aids. Also pack sunscreen, hats and insect repellent.
Take sterilising equipment if your child is bottle-fed.
Pack, lots of toys that keep your child busy and not bored. Also refrain too much of sharing between kids, which can lead to quarrels.
Prepare to carry loads of nutritious snacks and food when going out for sight seeing.
Take your own stroller or pram, even though it is bulky.
Take some familiar items from home – blanket, stuffed toy – this will keep your child occupied and give them some comfort.

 

Pursue:

The final step to relieving Parent Stress, while travelling is to oppose your plan and execute on it when you are on vacation. Before you even embark on your travel, if the baby is sick, postpone the travel – if they get sick during the travel try and cut the travel short. Actually visit the physician and get all vaccinations and clear all doubts regarding the place you are visiting.

 

Before travelling, to help pack for the trip and to keep your child’s various supplies organized, it might be a good intent to make a personalized travel box for apiece child. If travelling by air, feed your baby or child when starting and towards end of the trip, as the frequent swallowing can help prevent the build-up of pressure inside the ears. Encourage your child to drink plenty of fluids to reduce the risk of dehydration. During the flight, stick to smaller and more frequent feedings. Also supervise flight attendants when they heat your meals for the child.

 

If travelling by car, make sure your child eats something before travelling, but refrain heavy or greasy foods. Entice your child to look out the window by pointing to several things along the way. Also try and have a few surprises up your sleeve, like a travel toy or game that can be opened only after you start your travel. This will refrain boredom in travel for children especially when doing long haul flights or long road/train journeys.

 

Once on holidays, take all precautions when visiting new places – like not leaving the child unattended, being vigilant about the potential dangers of unfamiliar places, such as unfenced swimming pools or balconies. Try to keep a tiny bit of familiar mealtime routine so that the children do not get cranky. Ring ahead and check out for availability of children’s menu to refrain surprises and for younger children prepare them to take “jarred” or “tinned” baby food as fresh food might not always be available. Wherever possible, use disposable items and use any babysitting facilities at your hotel so you can have a break.

 

The most important thing, however, is to be flexible!  Your baby won’t be healthy to have the same sleeps, so if you think the baby is tired, take a day off. Use the extra days you have planned to rest and don’t pack them with more travel.

 

For children above five years, you can grant them to select some items to pack or wage them with a choice of seat or grant them to move around the platform or terminal while inactivity for next train or flight. This will help them acquire a sense of control in the experience and they will be lot superior behaved and less bored. Finally maintain a cool head during the trip. Remember to focus your attention on the trip itself and all the fun that comes with it, rather than on the hassles of travel as these hassles are short lived. This way you can have a wonderful time with your family.

3 P’s to relieve Parent Stress while Travelling with Kids, Toddlers and young Children

The author is a successful marketing executive and a mom of two boys. She has had a rough ride in the past two years and has successfully saved her family from the brink of disaster by working on her parenting techniques. You can access her free report “New Parenting Style” or purchase her book “Solving Teenage Problems” on http://www.teenageproblems.newparentingstyle.com or check your “Parent Stress Intensity Quotient” for free on http://www.stressmanagement.newparentingstyle.com.

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Family Travel Tips: 18 Ways to Enjoy a Road Trip

Whenever one of my friends returns from some time away, I ask: “Was it a vacation, or was it just a trip?”

When traveling with kids, true vacations are pretty hard to come by. With the packing, the automobile seats, the change in sleeping schedules, and all the inevitable whining that comes along, it would be way easier to stay home (especially when traveling by car.)

And yet traveling is important. When we travel, we open to a world that was previously unknown to us. We touch other cultures and other ways of life; we broaden our own perspectives and understand, finally, that our small problems are just that.

When we travel with kids, we open their eyes to all of this and more. Even when we take a easy trip to visit distant relatives, we show them a world of love that they might not had known existed.

Here are eighteen tips to help you enjoy road trip traveling with your kids.

Before the trip:

1. Use online trip planning websites to locate kid friendly parks, historic monuments, and other attractions in advance. Plan at least one child oriented activity apiece day, even on those driving days. Involving your children in the planning of your pass will help them to get excited about the trip, too.

2. When you are doing your research and booking your destination, think about an all inclusive resort. These types of arrangements (in which your lodging, dining, attractions, and activities are included) can really help you rest and enjoy your precious pass time.

3. Have apiece child pack their own small backpack with the books, workbooks, and activities that they most want to bring.

4. Have a kid friendly travel map on hand, as well as a pair of binoculars.

5. Think about buying or borrowing a portable DVD player. We only get ours out on long trips, but it has been really helpful, especially if you are traveling very long distances.

6. Get apiece child a special book of games, puzzles, or easy coloring books, just for the drive, along with some washable markers.

7. Bring some music that everyone will enjoy singing along to. We love our CD of old campfire songs. You can even create your own CDs of family favorites.

8. Bring a Frisbee or a football for when you stop at a park. You want to help your children burn some energy in a reasonable amount of time.

9. Pack healthy snacks, such as nuts, trail mix, apples, energy bars, and bottled water. A package of baby wipes often comes in handy for tiny messes in the car, too.

10. Pack a journal and a disposable camera for apiece child, so that they can document the trip in their own way. These items can be gift wrapped and given to the children as you need a diversion from boredom or sibling arguments.

11. Make sure to speak about your pass like it is the eventual adventure. The enthusiasm that you bring to the prospect of piling into the automobile will help in untold ways.

In the Car:

12. If you can, do as much traveling as doable while your children are sleeping. Of course, country is paramount. If you find yourself getting at all sleepy, pull over and switch with your spouse or find a hotel.

13. If you do not like to drive at night, or you are driving through countryside that you would like your children to see in the daylight, make sure you leave plenty of travel time. Plan on a maximum of seven hours of driving per day. Get up early, drive a bit, and then check into your hotel in the mid afternoon and enjoy the swimming pool. Have a nice, relaxed dinner and leisurely check out some local sites in the evening.

14. While driving during the day, plan to stop at least apiece hour and a half. Stretch, take some bathroom breaks, and remember that getting there is half the adventure.

15. Finger knitting really helps my children to pass the time. All you need is a ball of yarn. There is no mess and you can find easy instructions online by doing a Google search for “Finger Knitting.” During our last automobile trip, we all arrived at our destination with lovely pink finger knitted scarves.

16. During a routine fuel stop, ask apiece child to select five or six postcards, which they can send to their friends. Make sure to bring your address book and postage stamps so you can mail them on the way.

17. Grant one child to be the “navigator” apiece day. The navigator looks at the map and gives suggestions on where to stop for snacks, gas, and meals.

18. Try these easy Travel Games:
The Alphabet Game: Find all the letters of the alphabet, in order, on license plates, billboards, and road signs. Or find objects that start with apiece letter.
I Spy: One mortal spies something in the landscape or in the automobile and gives clues. (One doable variation on this game is “20 Questions.”)
License Plate “I Spy”: See how many says you can spot.
License Plate Alphabet: Find all the letters of the alphabet, in order, on license plates.
Letter Bingo: Print out Bingo sheets with clip art or words depicting sites you will see on your trip.

Ultimately, it is important to remember that there is no such thing as a perfect family vacation. Prepare as much as doable in advance, and then rest and go with the flow.

Family Travel Tips: 18 Ways to Enjoy a Road Trip